CAN ANYONE CONFIRM THIS? 💔 1. He learned love was conditional Affection came when he performed, complied, or made her look good. Love wasn’t safe—it was transactional. 2. He became responsible for her emotions He learned to manage her moods, soothe her anger, and carry her pain. That’s not childhood—that’s emotional parentification. 3. He feels deep guilt for having boundaries Saying “no” feels cruel. Choosing himself feels like betrayal. His nervous system equates autonomy with abandonment. 4.
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CAN ANYONE CONFIRM THIS? 💔 1. He learned love was conditional Affection came when he performed, complied, or made her look good. Love wasn’t safe—it was transactional. 2. He became responsible for her emotions He learned to manage her moods, soothe her anger, and carry her pain. That’s not childhood—that’s emotional parentification. 3. He feels deep guilt for having boundaries Saying “no” feels cruel. Choosing himself feels like betrayal. His nervous system equates autonomy with abandonment. 4.
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